One of the things that is complicated about the polyamory community is our strange inability to talk about our love lives, since everyone we know that is poly is likely to be webbed up in some way with whomever we want to talk about. For example: I’ve been on three dates recently. All women are […]
I just got back from a camping trip with my wife. With her support, I burned several boxes of old journals, dating back from my childhood through the present. It took me three days. Now that I’ve decided not to sue the old hopefully soon to be dead bastard, I don’t need them any more.
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I have two books on the go right now. Writing, not reading. One is a novel I wrote about three years ago, which I’m trying to polish and complete. The other is a self-help book for survivors based on this blog. Both are well along and both have a lot of promise. I’m having a
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I’m fine. All is well. There’s no drama, generally or abuse wise, in my life. Except, I feel edgy and menstrual, which in itself is probably the cause of the edgy. I have a performance this Friday. I’m not looking forward to it. I’d like to be better prepared, but feel like I’d be wimping
Bailing vs Being Self Protective, a case study… Read More »
In my meditation walk, I suddenly had a flash that my new motto was “Free your vulva and the rest will follow”.
Free your vulva and the rest will follow. Read More »
I was listening to the audio recording of my last singing lesson (I’ve had three so far) and damn, my voice sounds good. I went online and purchased some sheet music for songs I’d like to do. The music store even transposes them to the right key. This is a big deal, as transposing by