I'm trying to write a chapter on coming out as an incest or child sexual assault survivor for the book.…
So I had my follow up visit with the gyne specialist last Friday. Here's the skinny. I do not have…
Do you have a friend, relative or lover who survived childhood sexual assault? Here's 6 of the top 10 things…
Note: This is probably triggering.It's medical studies talking about vulva injuries in kids and how they heal. Read at your…
Unlike my other posts, this isn't written for survivors, but for their partners. Okay, I lied, it's really written for…
In this post, I wanted to share what I've learned about night fears resulting from sexual assaults as a child…
[Note: Since I first wrote this, this piece has gotten a lot of attention for being a really good way…
[about the image - no it's not me, but I am pissed off no one told me what I needed…
Are you avoidant and want to heal it? Traits of an avoidant attachment style • It’s not easy for you…
When you have a hammer, everything is a nail... Image source unknown, found in multiple locations. I'm using the lens…
Since shortly after my most recent relationship ended, I have been presented with opportunities to set boundaries with women who…
So I think I have a strategy to never date someone avoidantly attached for more than a couple of dates…
So I'm waiting for 'the talk' - the conversation where I am likely going to be very firm about what…
Anyone know how to do this? I have a pattern in relationships where I start all competent and confident, knowing…
This healthy relationship stuff is exhausting, y'all. With all of the pandemic and holiday stress I'm just pretty fried. I've…
Content warning: sexuality, self pleasure, mention of vaginal injury. I have been doing an experiment this past 30 days…